Isimbi's TMI Blog

Hey, les cheries! Yeah, I know very long time 😂 and I don't know if I am even back. The writing slump hasn't ended yet I guess 😭, but yeah!! Soo lately, I’ve been reflecting on how the internet has shaped not just how we see the world, but also how we live in it—how we make decisions, carry ourselves, and most importantly, how we connect with other people . The Volume of Opinions When people talk about the dangers of social media, it’s usually about “fakeness”—someone looking rich or happy online when in reality, they’re not. But for me, that’s never been the real issue. The bigger problem is the sheer volume of opinions we consume. If you know me, you know I’m an information junkie. I always say, “I may not have experienced this myself, but I own the stories of others.” But lately, I realized the stories I truly own—the ones from real people in my life—are few. Most of my opinions, maybe 70%, come from 30-second videos or two-hour podcasts (and yes, I admit it, I consume a...

Can We Talk About Boys? Rethinking Gender Equality Beyond Empowerment Hello Mes Chéries 💃🏾 Here is another episode (is it an episode? I don’t know 😂). First of all — thank you again for the love on the last post. Even though I wasn’t able to answer you guys in the comments because I couldn’t even reread it again… haven’t found out why 😭😭 but we move. Second of all — how are you guys? How is life treating you, huh? What Gender Equality Isn’t Sooo guysss if you know me really well you know how much I struggle with femininity 😭😂yes it might not show that much(maybe) but I just can't tap into "feminine energy" . So it got me thinking about these things as it has been a conversation going around lately , feminine energy , masculine energy , masculinity and femininity😂.  But I got stuck on what those things truly mean especially Equality .  And the more I read here and there about what it actually means, the more I started to wonder if we’ve misunderstood some of it. ...

  Helloooo loviessss again 😂 Today is the d’day — Saturdayyyy 💃🏾💃🏾 and first of all, lemme take this moment to appreciate ALL the love and feedback I got on my last blog 🥹. Like yoh!! I’ve been shedding a few tears here and there not gonna lie 😭. First of all , I’m sending love and big hugs to you all 🫂🤍. I’m sooo glad I’m helping some people—yoh! Second , I think I’ve set the bar too high now and I’m afraid I’ll never be able to write anything that touching ever again 😭😂. But... I’d still like to try again though 😂.  And I know I promised a story time but yoh! your girl is still trying to learn to not be a lazy potato and have a life other than bed and work 😭😂 The Blog Idea That Almost Didn't Happen 🤭 So, let’s get into it 💃🏾. A friend of mine, back when I was in my “not-being-able-to-write” era, suggested this topic. I was like, "I have nothing to say about that!" 😂 He told me to write about what I’ve learned so far in my 20s. I laughed becaus...

  Heyy loviesss! Longtime no seee I knowwww 😭😂 but let's saayy it has been a rollercoaster the past few weeks I think I might talk about it in the next blog this week( Yes!! you heard it right 2 blogs in one week😂) Not gonna lie though I wrote this I think it's been a month already 😭😂 but this saturday be readyy for a story time , for tea and everythingggg😂😂 so let's get into it and I didn't want to check the whole thing again and overthink it as I did before 😂 (so days means weeks 😂) I listened to a podcast a few days ago where they were talking about childhood trauma — and if you know me, you know I’m a huge fan of psychology, mental health stuff, and all that good deep-diving into the human brain. 🧠✨ They mentioned something about attachment styles — and listen, when I hear a new term or even something I think I know, it’s over for my sleep schedule. 😂 I went down the biggest research rabbit hole — reading articles, watching videos, stalking expert opin...

  Hellooo everyone 💃🏾💃🏾 It’s been a while since I posted — we’ve just come out of a very important period as a country, and I took some time to reflect, learn more about our history, and just be present in the moment. 🙏🏾 Life lately… 🤯😅 Let’s get back heree! I knew I’d struggle with consistency but not this early 😂😂. But I know you guys are forgiving people, right? 😭 The past few weeks have been WILD. Not just busy — I mean emotionally wild. I’ve been sad, happy, angry, grateful — name it. And when I look back, I can’t believe all of that happened in just 2–3 weeks 😭😭. Honestly, adulthood is not for the weak , mpba banange 😭😂! It should come with a manual 😤. In the middle of all this chaos… 🌸 Despite everything, I found peace in one thing — gratitude . I locked in and just thanked God for everything. The things I prayed for, and even the ones I didn’t think to ask for. You know when you take a step back and realize how much God has done for you? From small things...

  Staying True to Yourself & Not Regretting Decisions Hellooooo guyzzz!! 😂 It’s finally Saturday , and I am sooo excited to start posting on my blog! 🎉 The only problem? I have no idea how to start. 💀 I haven’t read a lot of blogs, and the ones I have read? Meh, not my style. So guess what? We’re freestyling this thing! 😂 Stay tuned. A 35-Year-Old Made Me Think 🤯 So this week, I was talking to this guy—he’s like 35+ years old —and he told me something that shook me. He said: "It hasn’t even been two years since I actually started paying attention to what I want." I was like huh?? 🤨 You mean to tell me that a whole grown man just started making decisions for himself?! Turns out, for most of his life, he had been following the crowd —doing things because everyone else was doing them. That blew my mind. Because if someone that age was just now figuring this out, then I must be doing something right by learning this lesson early! That got me thinking… ...

Hey, I’m Isimbi – Let’s Talk About Life So, here’s the thing—I’ve always been an oversharer. I’m the friend who sends long messages, reflects on the smallest moments, and turns everyday life into deep conversations. And honestly? I love it. I’ve been wanting to start this blog for a while now not because it’s some big milestone or special occasion—but because I’m finally ready. Life has been a mix of lessons, faith, growth, and a lot of trial and error, and I figured, why not create a space where we can talk about all of it? I know some of you might be thinking, “Why not just start a YouTube channel and vlog like everyone else?” And trust me, I’ve thought about it too. But here’s the thing… I am camera shy 😭. Well, maybe not camera shy , but me and cameras? Uhm, we just don’t work. The thought of sitting there, trying to be all put together, editing videos for hours—yeah, not happening. But writing? Writing is where I can be my full self. I can rant, overshare, and just let my thou...